Have you met a person you really like but do not know how to tell him? Do you hide when you meet him because you blush and fear he will realize you like him? You are not sure about his feelings and you are afraid that he will reject you so you pretend you do not care about him? It’s probably time to move on and see if he cares.
1. Make eye contact and smile.
A smile will make you look friendly and mysterious, as he will wonder why you are smiling. Look him deep in the eye, count to three and then look away. This is enough to mobilize him to find a way to approach you. Be careful not to stare at him. The art of flirting with the eyes must be done with attention to avoid creating misunderstandings.
2. Touch him!
As you pass by, lean slightly on top of him or rest your hand on him as you speak. Non-verbal communication is very powerful and relays messages to others. If he is interested, he will respond accordingly and you will know.
3. Remember what he told you!
Did he mention the name of his mother or his favorite pet? Remember that. When you mention it in a conversation, he will be flattered that you paid attention to him when he was talking and this will bring you closer. The more you show that you pay attention to what he tells you, the closer he will come. But be careful not to cross the line and get to the point of flattering him too much with what you say, because then the results will be rather negative.
4. Ask questions.
What is his favorite food, what is his favorite team? Which artists does he like? Find what you have in common and take advantage of it. You could invite him to a concert or a restaurant with his favorite cuisine. We all like to be taken care of which makes us feel unique.
5. Tease him!
It may sound childish, but it works. Tease him politely, tell him about the mustache that the coffee cream has left on his face. For the way his long jeans sweep the street, for his messy hair… Generally, show that you have a sense of humor and that you can appreciate it properly when given the opportunity. This intimacy relaxes him as he does not need to be perfect to like him and this brings results faster.
6. Watch him!
Men hardly understand that we care about them because we send them confusing messages. So, we need to give them as many hints as we can. When you talk to him, dedicate yourself to what he says and show interest. Do not talk on the cell phone at the same time, do not send messages but make eye contact with him. Laugh at what cute he says and make sure you understand what he said so that you can comment. This will bring more intimacy and as soon as he feels confident enough, he will make his move.
7. Meet his friends!
When you get involved with his life, it will be easier to move from a friendly to an erotic level – as long as you do not get too involved and become a second mother. If you can beat his friends, then you can beat him too. For men, the opinion of their friends is very important, so it is good to charm them.
8. Confidence.
The most important step is this! You can be beautiful, charming but not confident… then you have a problem! Confidence adds charm and sexuality. Even if you do not have it, you need to pretend you have it… How? Move your head up, do not show nervousness, smile and when you speak, speak slowly and calmly. Nervous people fill us with negativity, so we avoid them. You do not want to be one of them, do you?
You cannot achieve anything if you are not yourself. You need to be sure that you like this person and that you will get into an unpleasant adventure. Do not be influenced by anyone who may tell you that he is not for you, because no one knows you better than you do. After all, as the Ancient Greek philosopher Pythagoras said, “Do what you think is right, even if by doing so they are going to malign you.” “Because the mob is a bad judge of every good thing.” A test will convince you!
