We all know that it is important to spend time with our partners. But how much time do we need to be with someone so that he does not think that we ignore him, or he does not feel pressured by our presence? Quality time is much more important than quantity. And I do not mean to be in front of the TV and watch series together … but to let our imagination lead us to new paths.
1. Recreate your first date.
It does not matter what you do, whether you go to a luxury restaurant or for skewers…. Try to create the atmosphere of your first date and remember together what made you fall in love. Let time take you back… when you had no obligations, maybe not even children and bills bothering you. But you had each other and your love and that was enough.
2. Spend a night at home.
Cook a gourmet dish. Or order from your favorite restaurant. Wear nice clothes and shoes, open a bottle of wine and play your favorite music. Become the protagonists for one night and forget the problems. The house can become a wonderful shelter if we allow it.
3. Try a new sport.
Sometimes just breaking the routine and trying something with your partners is enough to spend quality time with them. You can do this in many ways, one of them being sports. Ride horses together, play tennis, go for 5×5 football, or go for a swim in the lake. The choices are endless and what counts is that you share wonderful moments with each other.
4. Escape for a weekend.
The four walls of a house can ruin a couple’s relationship when there is no change in their life. Try organizing a short getaway for the weekend so that you can escape from the routine and obligations for a while. This will help you remember that before you became a couple you were a person who was looking for someone to love and be loved.
5. Read a story to your partners.
You can choose to read a sex story. Help your partners fantasize with you being present. So, not only will you spend quality time with them but also a very promising night.
6. Go to the cinema
It goes without saying that you will choose a romantic movie to watch with your loved ones. The environment is ideal… low lights, close to each other, hand in hand you can watch a movie that will stimulate your “appetite”.
7. Share the bathtub.
We all like to be pampered every now and then. Open a wine or soft drink, light candles, fill the bathtub with hot water and aromatic shower gel and invite your friends to accompany you for a bath. This is the way to end the night or to start!!
8. Play!
It may sound childish, but sometimes it’s good to be kids. Play with your partners. Caress them, rub them, roll on the floor, make fun of their socks, the dimples on their cheeks or neck; become children and re-introduce yourself to those you once claimed but now take for granted. Refresh your relationship!
You do not need to spend many hours with someone you love, because it can make you irritated and unhappy. What you need to do is spend quality time with them. So, hang up the phones, send the kids to your parents, put the problems aside and grab your partner’s hand, look him in the eyes and find in his eyes the man you once fell in love with… Somewhere deep down this person is still alive and his spark is still on. It is up to you to keep it that way.
